This outing requires focus and a switcheroo from our usual It's All about the Journey motto, as we needed to get to Wildcat Cove on schedule. If not, we would be stuck on the sandstone face of "The Bump", a particular rock formation that juts out into the bay that is only accessible when the tide is less than 3 feet. We had to organize our six hour day so we would have enough time to navigate our route, play together, explore the beach, eat, and get to our destination. And, bam! Silver Salmon rocked this outing! They stretched their edges, widened their circles, practiced skills, demonstrated bravery, communicated their needs and supported each other when needed. This mentor is so proud of their growth this season overall.
We gathered at the Clayton beach parking lot and happily and loudly welcomed each other, widening our circle to include each person. Re-connecting as a group is sometimes an awkward process, and play helps dissolve the social divide. Opening circle was like herding squirrels due to our excitement, and then we looked at a tide table and the map to plan our day. A quick visit to the toilet resulted in finding a slithering of Garter snakes, so that was exciting! Handling snakes so you don't get pooped on is an exercise in gentleness and calm and is not about holding them, but rather giving them a continuous surface to move on. Ask your Explorer how to do so. We used lots of hand sanitizer after!
We began our journey down the trail with the need to make a decision about our route, as soon as the trail forked. We stopped to share information about the trail, and then the mentors stepped out of the circle so the Silver Salmon could make a group decision. We don't vote when making decisions in Explorers Club, we instead use Collaboration and Compromise as our guide. Which is a longer process to engage in, but it's vital to the group dynamic. Working through personal frustration and individual wants (let's go!) for the benefit of the group can be challenging. Turns out, this group discussed their options, listened respectfully to each other's opinions and made a decision based on the information and we were on our way in less than five minutes. Nice work, girls!
We hiked the trail down to the railroad tracks and found the infamous rope swing. Yoikes. We had a full S.T.O.P. discussion about why Explorers don't just jump on this swing and go for it. It looks so fun, right?
Here's a situation where the risk very much outweighs the fun. Do we know how long that rope has been hanging there? Is that rope designed to hold weight and be used for this purpose? Do ropes degrade? We considered a long list of "what ifs" and decided if the rope broke, it would be a seriously detrimental experience for everyone. So, we messed around with the rope swing, using it as a messenger service across the creek and such, but it wasn't actually sat on by any Explorer. We watched an adult who decided the swing looked like fun, so we gave him some unsolicited opinions about why that was not a smart idea, ha! We admit it was tough to watch a grownup swinging on this contraption, and not join in that fun. Ah well. we survived our disappointment and had lots of fun in this forested creek gulley. We found a big salamander/newt in the waterfall section of the creek and tracked a shrew for a surprisingly long while. We evolved into our usual wild animal selves; coyotes, cougars and wildcats, happily exploring the creek, mud and our lunches and playing together in small groups for a couple hours like we do. The Silver Salmon love to play!
The mentors found that our traverse was going to be trickier than we had previously experienced during this outing. The tide was a bit higher than the prediction, so we didn't have the option to walk along the sandy shore with minimal rock scrambling. It was going to be a scramble across those big boulders, the whole way. So with a sense of urgency, we began our journey.
Was it challenging? Yes. We needed focused awareness on our every step. Some rocks were slippery with decomposing seaweed and unexpectedly shifted under our weight.
Navigating The Bump was the most challenging as the trail is very narrow along the rock face. The margin for error was small and the opportunity for a dunk is high if you're careless. It's key to go slowly and carefully, putting the Slow is Fast and Fast is Slow motto into practice here. The Silver Salmon handled themselves like champs, taking good care of themselves and each other. When there was talking, it was to encourage each other. One thing we discuss often is what being brave means. The Silver Salmon's definition for being brave is 'being scared, and doing it anyways.' We think bravery is not a feeling, it's being persistent and having perseverance to move through a perceived obstacle.
And finally.....YES! We reached our destination with just enough time for a snack and closing circle. Apologies for the delay in our return, this group's circle around sharing connections and acknowledgements for each other was something we couldn't quit. :)
Here's the link to our photo album of the day. And check out Holly's AMAZING granola bar recipe below (Holly got several requests for this recipe after the girls chowed down on them during one of our traverse snack breaks)!
Thank you, Silver Salmon. Great work practicing your skills this season! Here they are, being ferocious! Or laughing at each other's ferociousness!
Granola bars
Preheat oven to 325
Line large cookie sheet with parchment paper (this is KEY!)
In large mixing bowl, mix wet stuff:
~1 ripe mashed banana
~1/2 c nut butter or sunflower butter
1/2 c sweetener (sugar or maple syrup)
Big blob of molasses
Big dash salt
Hearty dash of cinnamon (to taste, whatever you prefer)
Then add dry stuff:
3 c Rolled oats (not quick)
1/2 c Shredded unsweetened coconut
1/2 c Raw pumpkin seeds
1/2 c Raw sunflower seeds
1/2 c Ground flaxseed/hemp hearts
~1/2 c roasted unsalted peanuts or other nuts
~1/4 c Chia seeds
~1 c dried fruit (dates, cherries, apricots, raisins)
~1/2 c or more Chocolate chips
1/4 c unsweetened cocoa powder
Note: anything marked with a ~: I don't really measure these items, I just put enough in so it looks like a good ratio when mixed. These are optional items, use what you've got and experiment.
Mix it all up until thoroughly moistened and smoosh evenly onto parchment covered cookie sheet. Press the batter down hard (use a rolling pin), or your bars will be crumbly. Bake 25-30 minutes. Sometimes I leave them in the oven for a while after it's off so they get really crunchy. Cut when cool. Store in airtight container. Enjoy!
