We gathered in Fairhaven Park on a misty, but warm fall morning, and spent our opening circle discussing why we should learn skills like making cordage. The girls determined that the skills are fun, cool to know, and good for survival. We also talked about the pride that comes with making something from hand and the connection we feel to earth when we get to know these natural materials really well. After our opening circle, we decided to go on the hunt for nettles in their fall form.
In fall, nettles are super tall and strong. On our our nettle quest, we found a remarkably dry lunch spot, really cool fungus, a really unique and camouflaged slug, and tons of spiders.
In addition to this, the girls practiced, without any adult intervention, collaborative decision making on where we should go and how we should use our limited time. It was impressive to see the gals collaborating so well. They were flexible, understanding, and really tried to listen and take in all points of view.
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| Collaborating and compromising |
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| Rebecca demonstrating how to work with the nettle |
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| Keep the nettle strand safe!! |
At this point, it was time to learn how to actually get the fiber from the nettle! The girls learned how to gently pull the outside fiber away from the inside fiber. This outside fiber is what will eventually become the fiber for our cordage. The girls sat in a circle and meticulously worked to separate the nettles. Some were totally in to this kind of work, and others quickly tired of it!
While some girls finished the nettle processing, others climbed trees, told jokes, and made funny faces. After we finished this process, we all played an epic game of Down the Rabbit Hole in the rain. It felt good to run and be crazy after focusing for so long.
While some girls finished the nettle processing, others climbed trees, told jokes, and made funny faces. After we finished this process, we all played an epic game of Down the Rabbit Hole in the rain. It felt good to run and be crazy after focusing for so long.
We closed our day with an attitude of gratitude; the girls thanked nettles, the rain, and one another for this memorable day.Words of the day: Nettle Cordage, Rain, Play. To see all of our pictures from this earth skills day, click here.










